Act like the two of you have something really special going on
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Ross Jeffries: "Always act and speak as if you two have something really special going on that can't be found anywhere else. This is a good attitude to have all the time. Don't just tell her you do, that gives her a chance to evaluate it and (god forbid) decide that's not the case." Say things like you are glad that you do have such a really special thing going and keep elaborating on the glad feeling. In the back of her mind she'll accept that you do have a special thing going - she has to in order to understand why you are glad (this was also an example of using a presupposition).
See also:
Presuppositions and other "mind-tricks"
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